“Make a walk in such a way that everyone learns many things from your each step!”
― Mehmet Murat İldan.
Most of us experience difficult decisions, stressful events, and difficult situations that somehow affect us in the rest of our lives. Difficult times occur. They teach us lessons, make us stronger, and give us deeper self-esteem. After all, if you weren't experiencing a storm first, would it sit so much in the sun? I used to be an insecure girl obsessed with her weight, stepping on the scales about twenty times a day. I used to be a bulimic teenager struggling with depression and a way too controlling father, whom I never told, “I love you, Dad.” I used to be a lonely woman who always fell for the wrong men because she had not yet learned that she deserved better. I used to be co-dependent, fighting for everyone but myself. I moved in another city to chase my dreams without the help of anyone. I thought this will be fine and great but I'm wrong I work as a call center agent and thought it was so easy peasy but in the long run in the process of making I didn't get the expectations I put to myself I became a monster and eating her self up I didn't imagine I can do that to myself just because I multitask I'm a student and I'm a call center I didn't now what to prioritize first I'm thorn between the two. Fighting the silence of my new place, The silence taught me that silence does not equal loneliness. Silence equals inner peace. And inner peace equals strengths. I learned that if you want your future to be brighter than your past, you must start acting differently. Today. Being too harsh in your self will not help you achieving your dreams . I also learned another very important lesson: love yourself and set free. One step at a time When you love yourself and you set free everything will be okay you know how important you are. One step at a time Space taught me about freedom: the freedom to listen to my feelings, and the freedom to trust myself. Once I understood that I could trust myself, I realized I could accept myself, too. At this point, I was finally able to let go of my neuroses and cope with the emotions that had been feeding my eating disorder. All my life I had been troubled by yesterday’s “what ifs” and worried about tomorrow’s “maybes.” I am by no means flawless, but through my journey I have realized that anyone can change if they take it one step at a time. You just have to try and put yourself out there, even though it means you need to leave your comfort zone. Because we all deserve to be happy! And it is never—never—too late to take a U-turn and rewrite the plot of your own life. https://tinybuddha.com/blog/life-gets-hard-keep-moving-forward-one-step-time/
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